Anal Sex

So I have had a lot of time to think this past week. I've seen Jen a handful of times, I think she's been staying with a friend or something. Fuck her. So I was watching porn on the laptop. I found a flick where an 18 year old has anal sex for the first time. The movie isn't in English, and the chick starts crying. There were some comments about the movie. Some people said it was disturbing, and others argued that Anal sex is only about control and domination to begin with. I don't know what side I'm on.

I enjoy the dominant part of anal sex, however I don't know if I would say it is the only reason people enjoy anal sex. In this conversation I need to point out I am referring to heterosexual anal sex. Maybe I can understand gay sex being about mutual love and respect where there are no other openings. In a heterosexual relationship I don't know if I can agree. Maybe it's just that it is tighter, but there is always the feeling that you are making the chick uncomfortable. Who knows?

I would love to hear your opinions.

Please comment.